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		<title>By: Storming the gates of HELL , otherwise known as teaching kids boundaries &#187; Barbara Ling</title>
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		<dc:creator>Storming the gates of HELL , otherwise known as teaching kids boundaries &#187; Barbara Ling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 11:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: chocl8t</title>
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		<dc:creator>chocl8t</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 18:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, now that I&#039;ve composed myself and cleaned my PC monitor...

Slaus, thanks for interjecting a male perspective. I agree teenagers and stupidity are synonomous, it&#039;s a fargone conclusion. My mom used to tell me, but primarily my &quot;wild child&quot; sister, there wasn&#039;t a game we could try to run on her that she didn&#039;t invent. She threw many a monkey wrenches in a girl&#039;s programs!!

I agree with everything you&#039;ve stated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, now that I&#8217;ve composed myself and cleaned my PC monitor&#8230;</p>
<p>Slaus, thanks for interjecting a male perspective. I agree teenagers and stupidity are synonomous, it&#8217;s a fargone conclusion. My mom used to tell me, but primarily my &#8220;wild child&#8221; sister, there wasn&#8217;t a game we could try to run on her that she didn&#8217;t invent. She threw many a monkey wrenches in a girl&#8217;s programs!!</p>
<p>I agree with everything you&#8217;ve stated.</p>
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		<title>By: chocl8t</title>
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		<dc:creator>chocl8t</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 18:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Every day @ 4pm huh? LMAO!!

Ignant Arses and I LOVE IT!!

still LMAO!!!!</description>
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<p>Ignant Arses and I LOVE IT!!</p>
<p>still LMAO!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Slaus of O Hell Nawl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Slaus of O Hell Nawl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 18:20:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok Black daddy coming through.

Ok it&#039;s a different world than when we all grew up. So stop comparing todays kids to us. 

when we were kids, our siblings and our dads, had porn stashed somewhere in the house, and if you think your house was exempt, you&#039;re smoking tampons homey. 

Now kids have the internet. a doorway to shenanigans and debauchery. But MAYBE, if you spent a lil extra time being a good parent, you would worry a lil less about what your children are doing on the net. But better believe, they are doing some ignant shyt. That&#039;s what Teenagers do! Either it&#039;s going to be on the internet, or in the streets. Ignance and teenagers go hand in hand.

Just give their azz acceptable boundaries. Quit letting them have computer&#039;s in their &quot;locled&quot; bedrooms. I wish I WOULD have locked my door in julia and staffords house. 

Your kids want to be on the net, fine, but its going to be ona  computer, in the family room, and aint nan passwords going on ish.

Aint no privacy or rights given! You get privacy and rights when you own your OWN house. But if your kids wanan hide some ish from you they can and will. Shit, if they were smart they would buy their own password protected usb drives and work off them things.

Problem today is you&#039;ve got too many punk ass parents that expect the world to parent for them. The world aint designed to make your child a good person. That&#039;s your job. and its a 24-7 job.

.. matter of fact.. yall should sucka puinch your kids every tuesday @4pm. just cause.

Both my wife and I are both IT proffessionals.. so i aint nan worried about my sons evah thinking they got one up on me in the tech area.

-Slaus</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok Black daddy coming through.</p>
<p>Ok it&#8217;s a different world than when we all grew up. So stop comparing todays kids to us. </p>
<p>when we were kids, our siblings and our dads, had porn stashed somewhere in the house, and if you think your house was exempt, you&#8217;re smoking tampons homey. </p>
<p>Now kids have the internet. a doorway to shenanigans and debauchery. But MAYBE, if you spent a lil extra time being a good parent, you would worry a lil less about what your children are doing on the net. But better believe, they are doing some ignant shyt. That&#8217;s what Teenagers do! Either it&#8217;s going to be on the internet, or in the streets. Ignance and teenagers go hand in hand.</p>
<p>Just give their azz acceptable boundaries. Quit letting them have computer&#8217;s in their &#8220;locled&#8221; bedrooms. I wish I WOULD have locked my door in julia and staffords house. </p>
<p>Your kids want to be on the net, fine, but its going to be ona  computer, in the family room, and aint nan passwords going on ish.</p>
<p>Aint no privacy or rights given! You get privacy and rights when you own your OWN house. But if your kids wanan hide some ish from you they can and will. Shit, if they were smart they would buy their own password protected usb drives and work off them things.</p>
<p>Problem today is you&#8217;ve got too many punk ass parents that expect the world to parent for them. The world aint designed to make your child a good person. That&#8217;s your job. and its a 24-7 job.</p>
<p>.. matter of fact.. yall should sucka puinch your kids every tuesday @4pm. just cause.</p>
<p>Both my wife and I are both IT proffessionals.. so i aint nan worried about my sons evah thinking they got one up on me in the tech area.</p>
<p>-Slaus</p>
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		<title>By: chocl8t</title>
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		<dc:creator>chocl8t</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 13:19:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JJ, thanks for stopping by. Your mom probably also had that strong foundation and that how she knew to pass it on to you as well.

With the situation told above, I lay blame at the father&#039;s feet primarily because he refuses to back up and support any rules or discipline set forth by the stepmom. She&#039;s tired of going against the grain and the son &quot;worships&quot; his father...if his father didn&#039;t say it, it doesn&#039;t me squat to him. Sad indeed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JJ, thanks for stopping by. Your mom probably also had that strong foundation and that how she knew to pass it on to you as well.</p>
<p>With the situation told above, I lay blame at the father&#8217;s feet primarily because he refuses to back up and support any rules or discipline set forth by the stepmom. She&#8217;s tired of going against the grain and the son &#8220;worships&#8221; his father&#8230;if his father didn&#8217;t say it, it doesn&#8217;t me squat to him. Sad indeed!</p>
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		<title>By: JJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>JJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 07:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SMH.

i don&#039;t understand.  I had the same rules you had and my mom was a 19 year old welfare mom.

naked girls on the computer.  No handle on adults names.  Sheesh.

My momma had (has) a saying: My door is always open whether you are coming in or going out.

Believe me for stunts like that she would have put my black ass out the house wihtout a second thought.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SMH.</p>
<p>i don&#8217;t understand.  I had the same rules you had and my mom was a 19 year old welfare mom.</p>
<p>naked girls on the computer.  No handle on adults names.  Sheesh.</p>
<p>My momma had (has) a saying: My door is always open whether you are coming in or going out.</p>
<p>Believe me for stunts like that she would have put my black ass out the house wihtout a second thought.</p>
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		<title>By: Soul Sistah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Soul Sistah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 19:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When young folk address me by my first name, I correct them myself.  &quot;Oh honey, you can call me Ms. AJ.&quot; I blame the parents for this, this is manners 101.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When young folk address me by my first name, I correct them myself.  &#8220;Oh honey, you can call me Ms. AJ.&#8221; I blame the parents for this, this is manners 101.</p>
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		<title>By: chocl8t</title>
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		<dc:creator>chocl8t</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 19:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL @ Soul Sistah...&quot;my little porn freak&quot;!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL @ Soul Sistah&#8230;&#8221;my little porn freak&#8221;!</p>
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		<title>By: Soul Sistah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Soul Sistah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 19:25:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally forgot about the blended family thing - I was off on the tangent about PRIVACY for kids...please.  If the husband does not put his fut down, then your friend should, after all she is the other parent in the house.  If dude won&#039;t stop looking at porn, he simply forfeits his rights to computer usage.  It would be better if the two grown folks could confront the son as a united front with dad leading the charge.....but sometimes you have to step up and be the parent yourself when men folk won&#039;t.  Perhaps she could address it as a respect issue.  

I had the same problem.  I ended up putting spyware on the computer to catch my little porn freak, then I put a password on the bios and it was all over for his peep shows....lol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally forgot about the blended family thing &#8211; I was off on the tangent about PRIVACY for kids&#8230;please.  If the husband does not put his fut down, then your friend should, after all she is the other parent in the house.  If dude won&#8217;t stop looking at porn, he simply forfeits his rights to computer usage.  It would be better if the two grown folks could confront the son as a united front with dad leading the charge&#8230;..but sometimes you have to step up and be the parent yourself when men folk won&#8217;t.  Perhaps she could address it as a respect issue.  </p>
<p>I had the same problem.  I ended up putting spyware on the computer to catch my little porn freak, then I put a password on the bios and it was all over for his peep shows&#8230;.lol.</p>
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		<title>By: chocl8t</title>
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		<dc:creator>chocl8t</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 18:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now, I need a couple of male perspectives! Fellas, whre are you? :)</description>
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